DeliaTS~The Blog

If you haven’t already noticed, I’ve been tweaking my blog a bit lately. I added the new header and rearranged the sidebars a bit. I still want to do a few more things but sort of ran out of steam.

Last weekend Trixie’s sister and family (husband, 2 kids (8 months & 3 1/2) and their dog) came out for a visit. It was really fun seeing them all. It still feels a little weird to me to see friends or relatives that are around my age with kids and see how they work as parents. Trixie’s sister and husband have a great dynamic with each other and their kids. They really do a great job with them. It all seems so overwhelming to me, but I’m sure that if Trixie and I ever end up having kids we would make a great team as well. Granted it would be a totally different dynamic and parenting style but I think we would rise to the challenges.

That being said, visiting with them always leaves me a little confused on the issue of having kids. On one hand I see all the joyous things that can come with being a parent. On the other hand I see what an energy drain raising children can be. I think overall these days I’m leaning towards not wanting kids though.

Our lives just seem to be in a really good space right now. Trixie has been really happy, I’ve been really happy, sex has been good. We’ve been so lovey dovey lately that it’s almost sickening. I’m not sure if getting pregnant would enhance those feelings or detract from them. But lately I’ve been thinking, why risk it?

———-

Today I had another laser hair removal session on my face & neck area done with yet another med spa. It seems like every time I find some place I like they go out of business or relocate. I’m pretty much done with laser but still have a few little trouble spots. The new place I went to was great. The staff was friendly, their rates were the cheapest I’ve found, the equipment was top notch and they knew how to use it properly, they even threw in my arm pits for free! After finishing up I found out that they too would be closing soon So the jinx continues.

3 Responses to “A Good Space is Hard to Find”